"Ginawa Ko Lang Yung Tingin Kong Dapat" Lalaking Nang-bugbog Sa Babaeng Kapatid Nagsalita Na - PH TRENDING

Pinag-uusapan sa social media nito lang ang post ng isang netizen tungkol sa pang-bubugbog sa kaniya ng kanyang nakakatandang kapatid.

Ibinahagi niya sa social media kung paano siya sinaktan ng kaniyang kapatid at ibinahagi rin nito ang ilang mga litrato niya na may mga pasa.

Ngayon, ang nasabing kapatid na nang-bugbog, ay may depensa sa kaniyang ginawa. 

Basahin ang kaniyang post:

“Bakit mo sinaktan?”

“Babae yan, kahit ano pang gawin nyan, di dapat sinasaktan”

“Bakla ka nananakit ka ng babae.”

Really?

It’s so easy for people to say things when they don’t know the full story. So if you’re someone who always believes in some stupid shit just because someone posted it on Facebook, then you need to lower your chismis volume down and chill the fuck out.

I’m not saying I was not in the “wrong,” but if I was FULLY in the wrong, my parents and family would not have been on my side all this time, and they’ve been on my side ALL THIS TIME.

Isn’t it ironic?

I’ve been this “bad” guy on social media yet the most important people in my life didn’t say shitty things about me, and that's because they know me. It’s just these people who’ve been brainwashed by some random woman who got bruises on her face(and she gets this regularly[but not from me]) that easily point fingers.

Sometimes, there are circumstances in your life that need “appropriate” solutions, most especially when it involves the welfare of the whole family (especially the kids). The solution may not always be on the “good” side, but it’s probably the best for that situation.

So as a KUYA, SON, PARTNER, and FATHER of two kids, I did what I thought I should. I did things my way, to straighten out the REPEATED AND PERSISTENT DISRESPECTFUL BEHAVIORS toward me, the maids, the MOM of my babies, my kid, and especially my MOM, na hindi sya kayang kampihan dahil sa mga ginagawa nya sa LAHAT ng tao dito.

And trust me, I had exhausted all my other options and had hundreds of warnings before this happened, and everyone in the family knows about that.

If you have children in your house and you love them, and if you’re concerned about the negativity that some people bring into their lives, you probably would have done the same thing anyway. Well, of course, after the “talking things out” stage which didn't work. Or then, maybe not.

Another thing. Everyone's family is different, so don’t tell me that as a kuya, I should've done this and that when you don’t even know the situation. Believe me, I had done everything in my power to calm things down. Sad to say, my family is not as gentle and as sweet as yours, and “talking things out” is not always the best option for us.

So to all, I apologize for what happened. I know matters like this shouldn’t be on Facebook but it’s here already. Yes, I know it sucks. It really breaks my heart seeing people commenting negatively on The Lazy Lifter's page (kasi dinamay) and on my articles when all these things don’t even have anything to do with all of it.

And to those who truly know me, you know that I have a good heart, and I will still apologize even from the bottom of my heart I know I shouldn’t.

One thing I’m sure of is... if you people just know the REAL story, YOU WOULDN'T HATE ME.

Still, I’m very sorry.

PARA MAS MAINTINDIHAN:

Alam nyo Facebook people, hindi yan dahil sa malaki ang katawan ko (kung yun ang tingin nyo), dahil kahit patpatin o lampa ako, kung may nakababata akong kapatid kesyo lalake o babae na babastus-bastusin ako at ang nanay ko, sasagutin ako, mumurahin ako, at tuturuan ng kung ano anong kabulastugan yung anak ko, gagawin ko pa rin yung mga nagawa ko.

Hindi yan sa dahil proud ako na manakit, kasi ang tingin ko, kung hahayaan mo yung bata mong kapatid na bastusin ka at ang pamilya mo ng paulit ulit, eh baka ikaw na may problema nun? Hindi mo maturuan ng respeto yung sarili mong kapatid. Plus, nasa iisa kameng bahay.

Palibhasa kasi ata, wala kayong batang kapatid na sukdulan ang kabastusan sa kahit na sino kaya ambilis nyo magsalita ng kung ano ano.

Kung magkakapera ko sa bawat pambabastos nya samen, baka magkatotoo nga yung chismis na madami akong pera. Kasi sobrang dami na at ngayon lang ako pumatol.

At isa pa, nakakatawa kasi porke nakapost dito sa Facebook yung kwento nya, ibig sabihin totoo na.

Wala po akong sinabing OK LANG KAHIT MAGDEMANDA SYA DAHIL MADAMI AKONG PERA. Sinabi ko yung "madami akong pera" dahil etong Lola namin paulit ulit ng sabi saken na "wala kang silbi!" "Inutil ka!" "Wala ka naman kwenta!" Edi sumagot ako sakanya na, "Lola, madami na kong pera" just to prove a point.

Malinaw na ba yan? Nagpapauto kayo sa kapatid ko eh sikat yan sa paggawa ng kwento sa tao. Kaya kahit friends nya nagtetext at chat saken para sabihin na hayaan ko na lang daw, dahil pati sila ginanyan na rin ng kapatid ko.

Uulitin ko, di ako nagmamalinis, at di ako proud. Ginawa ko lang yung tingin kong dapat. Now, kung may dapat magsalita saken ng di maganda, pamilya ko yun, hindi yung mga taong wala namang alam sa ngyari. Family matter po kasi ito.

Last na, isang sampal lang sana yun. Kaya lang, bigla ako sasaksakin ng tinidor. Ayun. Kaya lumala. Hindi yan nabugbog kasi trip trip ko lang. Lumaban yan.

Ito ang ilang naging komento ng ilang netizens tungkol sa depensa nito.

Johnathan David Dela Cruz: You probably shouldn't be advising people to chill the fuck out because you should of CHILLED THE FUCK OUT and not lay a hand on your sister. You are the epitome of a bitch ass bitch. "Exhausted all of your options"? Man shut the fuck up. Doesn't matter if she was antagonizing you, it doesn't matter if you had enough, this is domestic abuse and because of those pictures your sorry ass will end up in jail. I say sorry ass because your ass will be sorry from all the butt rape from your cell mate, but honestly I bet you'll be having the time of your life, gay ass bitch. In terms of "doesn't belong on social media". It only doesn't belong on social media because you think you're a public figure, but guess what ...you ain't shit. ABUSERS should always be exposed. Your time has come. You think you can get away with whatever because you're "big", it doesn't work like that.

Arnie Heraldo Catapang: You made me proud for feeling sorry. You're right that none of us has the right to judge you not just because we didn't know the story, but because all of us are capable of being reckless at times specially when things are out of control. Chill ka na. This too shall pass. At the end of the day, you guys are still family. Praying for you, ycour sister and your family 🙂 hugs!

Jaja Dela Cruz: still mali padin mambugbog ng babae kasi unang una magkaiba ang lakas ng babae kaysa sa lalake.

Jombi Manlapaz:  Bro suggestion lang, may anak kna pala at dalawa pa, so bilang lalake try mo bumukod, para makaiwas nalang sa ganyang gulo lalo na't pamilya kayo. Walang talo o panalo dito, sa bandang huli pamilya nyo lang mismo ang talo dahil naipasok sa social media yung mga gantong family issue.

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