'Learnings And Realization' This Guy Shared The Key To A Long Lasting Relationship.
A relationship is not always perfect as they seem to be. Every relationship has its ups and down, you will laugh, cry, get angry, become confused but regardless from all of this, you both have to communicate, adjust and don't let pride take over you so that you can create a long lasting love/relationship. This guy shared the lessons he learned throughout-out their 9 years relationship. Let's read his story.
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PARANG KAYO DIN.
Katulad lng din ng ibang relationships, hindi naman laging masaya. Yung sa totoo lng, totoo naman db? Ups and downs. Minsan pa downs ng downs lalo na kung hindi agad napag-uusapan. Rockbottom, kelan ba aahon? Sagad na, parang hindi niyo na kaya. Corner na, saan pa? Gnun tlga part yun, pero sa mga down times, I choose to understand. I choose to be strong and show her we're gonna move on. Be still, ubos na kyo pero you still have God. Release the burdens, no matter how heavy it is. Nttunan ko yun, na yung bigat na dinadala niyo sa Diyos niyo lang I asa. Dahil tao ka, limitado ka.
Katulad lng dn ng ibang relationships, maraming differences. Magastos ka, matipid siya. Ideas niyo iba iba. Gusto mo kumain, ayaw niya. Artsy siya, minimalist ka. Yung gusto mong maging siya pero ayaw niya. Yung gustong kong ganito siya pero hindi iyon siya. Minsan pa kahit anong pasensya ayaw tlga. Feeling mo pointless yung point niya. Gnun tlga part yun, pero sa mga differences I choose to respect and accept. Yan tlga siya at sinabi mo una palang na MAHAL MO SIYA. Ikaw maging strengths sa mga weaknesses niya. Fill the gap, alamin mo yung mga bagay san kayo pareho, gawin niyo yung bagay na mag eenjoy kyo hindi yung mag iinisan lang kyo.
Katulad lng dn ng ibang relationships, nawawalan ng time pag busy. Iba kyo ng mundo eh, pang araw ka pang gabi siya. Yung pgising ka palang ptlog naman siya. Mgkalayo kyo ng work, afterwork na nga lng mgkkita, lalabas with friends pa, magoovertime pa, o kaya may meeting pa. Sabay nga kyo d naman kyo naguusap. Sa Mobile Legends o Ever Wing pinagpapalit mo siya. Gnun tlga, part yun. Pero sa time ng kabusyhan, time management ang kailangan. Isang text lng na nsa bahay ka na o kmusta kna, kmain kna, malaking bagay na. Baka may problema, hindi mo alam. Pagkaharap mo, yung games mo ipagbaliban mo at magusap kyo. Dati nga patwag twag ka pa. Bakit ka nag girlfriend kung hindi mo mabigyan ng time. Sinagot sagot mo, araw araw susungitan mo. Kung ayaw may dahil, kung gusto may praan. Hindi ba siya worth it mabigyan ng time? Time Management lng.
Katulad lang din ng ibang relationships, everyday we strive hard to survive. To survive the day of differences, to survive the day of busyness. Pra lagpasan yung araw na nagaway kame, pahupain yung galit at init. Sa araw araw mrming challenges, if you're not gonna fight you'll end up losing her. If you're not gonna eat your pride, and learn not to be humble, you'll keep battling with her. And that's when relationships start to fall. Pag hindi ka kinakausap, lambingin mo. Alam mong siya may kasalanan? Pride mo kainin mo, lambingin mo. Pag ok na kyo, ska mo explain side mo. Wala e gnun tlga, part yun. I just learn na wala namang mangyyre kung magpapataasan kyo. Humble yourself. Yung pagintindi mo, lawakan mo. Show her you are man enough hindi yung mas babae ka pa sa kanya sa arte. Show her how you treat a girl like no other, promise she'll admire you and love you.
At katulad lng dn ng ibang relationships, tao lang kame. We have our own limits. Yung kakayanan at pag handle mo sa hamon ng buhay may hangganan. Yung problema minsan todo na hindi mo kayang lagpasan. Yung pera, ubos na, yung sweldo wala pa. May family problem ka, apektado ka. Sa trabaho mo, ang gulo gulo. Sometimes ang chaos ng buhay, prang walang kaayusan. Bigat sa puso wala kang matakbuhan. Ganun tlga part yun, yan ang buhay but thats when we learn to call on God. Corner ka na, wala ka ng magawa, sagad na yung kakaynan mo lutasin yung problema mo pero nandyan ang Diyos tutlong sayo. Yung akala mong pinaka matinding away niyo na katapusan na ng mundo, pag dasal mo. Ask God for forgivenss kung may pag kukulang ka man. Ask God for love kung wala ka nang maibgay na love. Ask God for patience and understanding. Ask God for healing. Ask God in everything then give that back to your partner. Hold hands and pray together. In the deepest night na ang bigat bigat lang, pray lang. When our hearts are being pounded and wounded, Jesus heals.
9 years and 4 months, and counting.. hindi ko mssbing secrets, maybe just learnings and realizations. Mga notes sa relationships, mga napulot ko, tinandaan ko. Its been a long journey, tough journey.. sobrang happy and one day soon, this girl I will marry.
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